This month, we’re focusing on purposeful giving, a simple way to celebrate the season, enjoy meaningful traditions, and keep your savings goals intact.
The holiday season has a way of sneaking up on us…one minute it’s pumpkin spice and fall leaves, and the next it’s gift lists, travel plans, and full calendars. With so much happening, it’s easy for spending to spiral without us even noticing. That’s why this November, we’re focusing on purposeful giving, a simple way to celebrate the season, enjoy meaningful traditions, and keep your savings goals intact.
Why Purposeful Giving Matters
The best gifts aren’t always the most expensive; they’re the ones that show thoughtfulness, care, and intentionality. Purposeful giving helps you:
- Stay aligned with your financial goals so you don’t derail your savings plan.
- Reduce stress by avoiding the pressure to overspend.
- Strengthen relationships by focusing on meaning over material.
Tips for Purposeful Giving This Season
- Set a Spending Plan (And Stick to It)
Decide in advance how much you can realistically spend without dipping into your savings or relying on credit. Create a simple holiday budget that includes gifts, travel, food, and extras. - Make a Meaningful Gift List
Write down who you’re buying for and brainstorm thoughtful, budget-conscious ideas. Handmade gifts, framed photos, or experiences (like cooking dinner together) often mean more than big-ticket items. - Focus on Shared Experiences
Instead of exchanging large gifts, suggest pooling resources for a family activity, trip, or holiday meal. These shared experiences create lasting memories and often cost less than individual presents. Check out our list of 10 cheap or free holiday activities for ideas.
- Attend a Holiday Parade, Tree Lighting Ceremony or Festival. Many communities host an event the weekend after Thanksgiving or the 1st weekend of December to kick off the holiday season that is totally free. Most also have Santa there and ready to meet the kids, hear their wish list, and pose for a quick photo.
- Host A Movie Night. Instead of a big (and costly) party, invite your friends over, show your favorite holiday film, and serve hot chocolate and smores. Have each friend bring one item, like marshmallows or candy canes to cut back on cost for everyone.
- Volunteer. Another substitute for a holiday party – gather your friends and family and volunteer at a local shelter or soup kitchen. Clean out the pantry and donate while you’re there.
- Go Caroling! What better way to get into the holiday spirit than to walk around singing your favorite songs and spreading cheer to your friends, family, and neighbors? And it’s totally free! (make rehearsing an event too)
- Make DIY Gifts. Presents don’t have to come from a store or be costly to be special and appreciated.
- Bake Holiday Treats and Host a “SWAP” party. It’s the season to break out the cookbook and bake up batches of your best holiday sweets and treats to share. Call up your friends and family to join in on the fun by coming together and exchanging tasty goodies.
- Take a Holiday Lights Driving Tour. There are typically lots of lights adorning buildings, homes, parks, and public areas during the season. Pack up everyone and drive around checking out the displays. It’ll only cost a few gallons of gas. Maybe pack some holiday sweets and hot cocoa to enjoy on the ride.
- Create a Holiday Scavenger Hunt around your neighborhood or town. It will take a little work beforehand but will be a big hit with your friends and family….and can be done completely free!
- Host a Toy Exchange. Do your kids have too many toys – many that they’ve outgrown and don’t play with anymore? Gather other families for an exchange party. Each kid will walk away with something new that won’t cost a dime.
- Cut Down Your Own Tree. Make a whole day of it. Bundle up, pack a few snacks or picnic lunch, and head out to a farm near you to chop down your own tree as a family. Doing so can save on the cost compared to buying one at a local retailer.
- Use the “One Thoughtful Gift” Approach
Rather than purchasing multiple items, consider giving one meaningful gift. This keeps costs down while showing care and attention.
- Take Advantage of Savings Opportunities
Shop early to catch sales, use cash-back apps, and compare prices before buying. If you have rewards points, consider using them for gifts or travel.
Remember the Bigger Picture
The holidays are about more than what’s under the tree; they’re about connection, generosity, and gratitude. By trimming your holiday spending and embracing purposeful giving, you can keep your financial health on track while still spreading cheer.